Chances Of Getting Back With Ex » get back with ex http://chances-of-getting-back-with-ex.com Getting back with your ex tips. Wed, 18 Jan 2012 17:59:11 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Wanting To Get Back With Ex – The Lies We Tell Ourselves http://chances-of-getting-back-with-ex.com/2008/08/wanting-to-get-back-with-ex-the-lies-we-tell-ourselves/ http://chances-of-getting-back-with-ex.com/2008/08/wanting-to-get-back-with-ex-the-lies-we-tell-ourselves/#comments Sat, 23 Aug 2008 01:09:33 +0000 Chelsey http://chances-of-getting-back-with-ex.com/?p=33 Sometimes when we are dealing with particularly difficult situations, such as wanting to get back with ex, our perception begins to dim regarding the true problems and the issues behind the problems.  We often begin “sugar coating” these difficult situations to shape them in a way that makes it more easy to cope.

 In essence, the “sugar coating” alters our perception and without realizing it, we begin lying to ourselves about our relationship with ex.  We tend to push aside the real problems in the relationship due to clingy, needy emotional feelings that arise.  Our focus soon shifts to wanting to get back with ex, no matter what.

Our altered perception has us glazing over the problems and focuses on our clingy, needy feelings for our ex.  Soon we are overwhelmed with feelings of wanting to get back with ex.

A relationship involves a lot of time, hard work, bonding and love.  It is only natural to have feelings that draw us to wanting to get back with our ex.   The thing to remember is that you need to emotionally heal from the breakup pain before you can effectively deal with overcoming your relationship problems.

 In a recent article I dealt with the issue of “Are you lying to yourself about wanting to get back with ex?”  Read the article and see if you are telling yourself the same lies?  Remember, the key to happiness is YOU.

I Want To Get Back With Ex – Are You Lying To Yourself?

With escalating emotions and the abrupt change of lifestyle without our ex-partner, it can become easy for us to view life through rose-colored glasses.  Somehow the real issues behind the breakup are pushed down and instead a clingy, needy feeling for our ex envelops our life… [ read more of I Want To Get Back With Ex - Are You Lying... ]

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Chelsey

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]]> http://chances-of-getting-back-with-ex.com/2008/08/wanting-to-get-back-with-ex-the-lies-we-tell-ourselves/feed/ 0 Get Back With Ex Or Just Move On – Overcoming A Relationship Breakup http://chances-of-getting-back-with-ex.com/2008/07/get-back-with-ex-or-just-move-on-overcoming-a-relationship-breakup/ http://chances-of-getting-back-with-ex.com/2008/07/get-back-with-ex-or-just-move-on-overcoming-a-relationship-breakup/#comments Thu, 17 Jul 2008 19:27:46 +0000 Chelsey http://chances-of-getting-back-with-ex.com/?p=13 Often after a relationship breakup, we experience feelings of being torn between … wanting to get back with ex or just move on with our life. Many times, after the initial breakup, we are not in the right frame of mind to make this type of decision. We need time to deal with the emotional impact of the breakup.

A great process to help, during this time of overcoming a relationship breakup, is to express our feelings. Friends and family members can provide support and comfort to us during this overwhelming time in our life.

However, it is not unusual to have things on our heart, which we don’t feel comfortable discussing with even our best friend. In fact, many times, we aren’t even sure of our true feelings. This makes it impossible to express our feelings to others.

One of the most therapeutic ways to help us connect with our true emotions is by expressing them through writing, or journaling. Not all of us enjoy writing; however, many times we feel a certain way about something because we have never tried it.

If you are striving with overcoming a relationship breakup and find yourself torn between wanting to get back with ex or just move on with your life, then consider journaling. This article deals with the process of journaling in helping you to overcome a relationship breakup.
 
Overcome Relationship Breakup – Wanting Your Ex Back Or Just Move On 
 
Ever since your breakup, you just can’t seem to overcome the overwhelming feeling of devastation. You know you’re heartbroken, but right now you’re just not sure what to do… [ read more of Overcome Relationship Breakup - Wanting... ]
 
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